Why most relationships fail

Most relationships tend to fail. Not because of absence of love. Love is always present. It's just that one was being loved too much and the other wasn't being love enough. 

A relationship is a contract usually between two people connecting them emotionally and physically. Most relationships are started with the intentions of a couple spending the rest of their lives together but not all relationships work out. There are a variety of causes to the ending of a relationship including but not limited to: a cheating partner, a controlling partner, an abusive partner, a lack of communication from both partners, and partners becoming "burnt out" or tired of one another. 

In all of these causes to the ending of a relationship the key seems to be a deprivation of the binding glue of a relationship, love. Love is what holds a relationship together and when one or both individuals participating in said relationship lose the amount of love they once had for one another, or the love they once had for themselves, the partner/s resort to relationship ending tactics such as cheating, and abuse.

Don't look for happiness, create it

Happiness is a mind state or feeling/s of contentment usually caused by but not limited to being loved, satisfied, pleasured, etc. Feelings of happiness are thought by many people to only be caused by other people in their lives, spending time with family members, spending a night on the town with a spouse or relationship partner, but a lot of people fail to realize there are things you can do on your own to bring yourself happiness. 

There are a lot of things you can do to create happiness, such as setting a goal and accomplishing it, or just taking yourself out and treating yourself. Not only can you create happiness for yourself but it is also easy to create happiness for others, such as donating your time, money, or belongings to the less fortunate, spending time with a younger sibling or family member that may look up to you. Be proactive about happiness, instead of waiting for it to be created by someone else and come to you, make yourself happy, or better yet, make someone else less fortunate than you happy!